The key of harmony in married life

Our whole blog is going to be divided into two parts: first, precaution before marriage and second, precaution needs to be taken after your marriage.You should read both parts. It will give you a lot of help in life’s decisions. Without any further delay, let’s start the topic.

Whether you believe in God or not, every relationship  we have was created or given by God. We didn’t have any choice. But the only choice of relationship we have is the one between a husband and a wife.

Precaution Before Marriage

1. Marry someone who shares your perspective on money

Researchers from the University of Michigan discovered that people frequently chose their love partners based on their spending preferences in a survey of 1,000 married and single adults. However, this also led to more disagreements about money, which ultimately resulted in reduced marital satisfaction. People might benefit from understanding about their loved one’s spending patterns in order to find a method to compromise before things get out of hand.

2. Check personality type before marriage

If two people are not compatible in terms of human personality,the chances of argument and divorce must be very high. So it is advisable to check the human perosnality type.

You can read our relationship to human perosnality.

3. Respect one another’s morals.

It’s crucial to talk and discuss your own values and views, such as religion, family relationships and traditions, and politics, long before you decide to spend the rest of your life together. According to Brittny Drye, the New York City-based creator of Love Inc., Even if you don’t always agree, you should respect each other’s views and make sure they won’t be a deal-breaker before saying “I do.” If you do find that you and your spouse are at opposite ends of the spectrum in one area, keep in mind that you can still cohabit, but it might take more effort and forethought on your side to decide how to handle conflict before it occurs.

4. Meet the favourites of each other.

Respect one another’s morals. Knowing the most significant individuals in each other’s life may help you gain insight into who the other is as a person, whether it’s their inner circle of friends or a complete extension of family, according to Drye. Spend time together and get to know your partner’s family in-depth if time and location permit. (If not, there are fortunately more options than ever for connecting digitally!) It will also strengthen your relationship with your partner if you establish strong bonds with their family and friends. A word of caution: Start talking now about how you’ll spend time with each of your families once you’re married, especially if they’re from different parts of the county (or perhaps the world).

Type of human personalities and their hobbies

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Precaution After Marriage

1. Express appreciation and inclusiveness

Key phrases that make people feel valued have been found by scientists at Arizona State University. When speaking with your spouse, using the words “thank you” and “we” can increase partner satisfaction and even lessen animosity that one would experience due to any work imbalance. Speaking words of thankfulness and inclusion during conflicts communicates affection, which prevents the emergence of negative behaviours like rage and lowers physiological stress levels

. 2. Be truthful and encouraging.

Avoid cowering in a corner when your partner behaves badly. James McNulty, a psychologist at the University of Tennessee, believes that married couples should be able to tell one other to change and be forceful about it. His research suggests that relationships between unhappy couples who push themselves to have positive thoughts and behaviours deteriorate with time. Couples may benefit from a much-needed nudge in the right way by sharing their poor behaviours with one another.

3. Don’t be quick to give up.

The adage “a bad day doesn’t indicate a horrible life” also holds true for marriage. According to a research in the Review of General Psychology journal, the secret to successful relationships is hard effort. People prefer to stay in romantic relationships longer than those based on love or obsession. Couples may quickly reconcile disagreements and even develop chemicals that can mimic the blissful sensation experienced in a new relationship if they invest the necessary time and attention in their union.